And then he capitalizes on the contrast he's created a straw man of. We've grown into this wonderfully familiar and comforting companionship that hasn't lost the unpredictable edge of a fledgling relationship. North Carolina: Applicants 18 to 20 must present a certified copy of their birth certificate. One example of people trying to sort this out can be viewed here:My experience is that this kind of attempt at being relatively respectful is relatively uncommon. A girl had less freedom over her choice because her real future depended on this marriage.